Is Your Gut Instinct Lying? Four Ways to Tell.

June 9th, 2010

True and falseReinvention Law #2 (from The 10 Laws of Career Reinvention) says that when it comes to career reinvention, your body is your best guide.  And it is true that when it comes to deciding what you want to do, your body often sends the most accurate signals.  But what is also true is that all good decision-making requires an ever-shifting balance of intellectual and instinctual input.  When it comes to career reinvention, you use your intellect to answer the “how” and your instinct to answer the “what.”   But your gut isn’t infallible; it can be prone to bias because it draws upon your previous experiences—good, and not-so-good—to make a judgment call.  The trick is to know when to trust it.

The June 2010 issue of the McKinsey Quarterly contains an article about how to test your decision-making instincts.  Though the piece discusses the issue from the perspective of corporate leaders, their recommendations can also help you when making personal decisions.  Here are their four tests to know when you should trust your gut instincts, along with my analysis of how to use each one for your own career reinvention:

Test #1:  The familiarity test. In this test, you must ask yourself how often you have experienced identical or similar situations.  Familiarity is important because your subconscious relies on pattern recognition.  You need to have enough data to support a pattern, and to ensure that the previous experience referenced by your subconscious is correct!  The way you can judge this is by examining the “primary uncertainties” of a situation, and evaluating if you have enough experience to make an informed judgment call.  In career reinvention, the big question is often whether or not a career will be a good fit.  Perhaps your gut instinct is guiding you to become a coach.  If that intuition is based upon your years of informally coaching your friends, you probably have enough data.  If it’s based upon having a friend who’s a coach and loves it, you probably don’t.

Test #2:  The feedback test. Here, you want to make sure that your takeaways from your previous experiences are, in fact, correct.  As humans, our bias is to tag our decisions as good judgment, whether or not an independent assessment would support that.  I quit my first job on Wall Street because I was desperately unhappy.  At the time I thought it was a good decision—and it did, in the end, work out—but today I realize that it wasn’t so great (I was two months away from qualifying for a pension).  To run this test, have a conversation with a friend or colleague.  Tell them the experience your gut feelings are based on, and ask them for their honest feedback.

Test #3:  The measured-emotions test. Sometimes, your previous experiences are associated with highly charged emotions.  When that happens, you run the risk of making an unbalanced decision.  I had a client who was carrying baggage from a difficult experience with a former boss.  When her new boss once made a similar comment, her gut instinct told her she had run across another boss-zilla.  When you find yourself in these types of situations, you need help evaluating your emotions.  Ask yourself if you are overreacting, or speak to an objective friend about your feelings.

Test #4:  The independence test. Sometimes you have a personal interest in a particular outcome, and that bias will influence your gut feelings.  I see this often; aspiring Reinventors frequently fall in love with a particular company, and swear their instincts are leading them in that direction.  But many times the attachment is based upon other variables like an easier commute or friends who work at the firm.  If you find your gut irresistibly draws you to a single target, turn to a Native to test your assumptions and get a balanced viewpoint.

The McKinsey article cautions that if a situation fails even one of the four tests, you must strengthen your decision-making process to minimize the risk of a negative outcome.  If you find yourself in this situation, turn to friends or an informal advisory board for help vetting your career reinvention decision.


Q&A: How to reinvent yourself when you hate your job.

May 11th, 2010

We are reviving our “Ask the Reinvention Coach®” feature, where I will periodically answer questions from readers!  Read below for tips for moving forward when you feel unhappy and stuck in your job.

Q: Here’s my situation: I’m a 45 year old male.  Good paying job in a small computer company.  Thought of very highly at the company by the owner.  But I dread work pretty much every day.

I bought Pamela’s book but I am sort of stuck.  I don’t know what my ideal job even is to pursue.  I am also concerned if I had to take a major pay cut too.  I would prefer not to be miserable everyday going to work.

Recommendations?  Thoughts?

Signed, Sick of Software

A: I feel your pain.  Many people find themselves.  Many people find themselves in this situation; they believed that having a good job at a stable company was an automatic recipe for job satisfaction.  But you are living proof that this is a fairy tale.

No doubt the voices in your head (and maybe those in your world) say you should be happy for what you’ve got.  I agree that it is important to be grateful, not to create guilt but to encourage you to value your job as an asset you have at your disposal to launch your reinvention.

From your note, I notice two main traps of reinvention that are keeping you stuck:

  1. Looking for an “ideal” job. One of the biggest points of my book, The 10 Laws of Career Reinvention, is that there are no ideal jobs.  There are downsides to every career, even if you love the work.  To get what you want, job-wise, you have to give.  This means that to find work that both excites you and satisfies most of your lifestyle needs, you will have to accept some tradeoffs.
  2. Worrying about issues that may not be real. You are concerned about having to take a major pay cut, without knowing what you want to do next.  This is like worrying that your flight will crash before you’ve even made a reservation, much less bought the ticket.  Until you have targeted a new career and begun researching it, you cannot know whether or not lower pay is one of its tradeoffs.  (By the way, a TRI study back in 2006 showed that 25% of successful reinventors made more money in their new career).  Inventing barriers without actual data is a form of excuse-making, and as Law 3 says: Progress begins when you stop making excuses.

To move forward, you must shift your attention from what’s making you unhappy to what makes you happy.  I am certain that there are things about your current position that you enjoy or that work for you; write them down.  Do the brainstorming exercises in the book, especially the ones focusing on flow activities and inexhaustible interests.  If you need more help, there are a number of in-depth exercises in our new Brainstorming Your Reinvention Idea eKit to guide you.

Once you have a few workable ideas for what you would like to do next, see how your job can help you move towards your goal.  At the very least it will provide funding (aka ‘paycheck’) as you explore, but it could also provide a whole host of valuable assets for reinvention (contacts, opportunity to work on new projects and develop new skills, tuition reimbursement, etc.).  You may well find that what you hate ends up being a useful launching pad to what you love!


How to stay hire-able in the age of Reinvention

February 25th, 2010

iStock_000009612718A week or so ago, The New York Times ran a piece about how, due to a confluence of factors, the U.S. is facing an economic recovery that will leave millions of people unemployed.  This installment in a series entitled ‘The New Poor’ tells the story of Jean Eisen, a former saleswoman for a beauty supply equipment company, who has been unable to find work for over two years.

The article points out that job creation in the U.S. has been declining for decades, mostly due to the American focus on shareholder value which leads companies to continually reduce payroll to beef up profits.  This is a trend I noted in my book and one that, coupled with the deepest economic downturn since the Great Depression, calls for a different strategy of career management.

My heart goes out to Jean who at 57—an age when she should be happily contemplating retirement—is navigating the world of food stamps.  Before this downturn, she never struggled to find work.  Now she scans the listings; most require experience or software proficiency that she lacks.  Jean has found that having a great personality and presence is not enough to protect her from joblessness.

Hers is a cautionary tale for anyone who thinks they’re in a “safe” industry or “That couldn’t happen to me.”  The world of work has changed, and the ability to reinvent your career at any moment is the new—and only—form of job security.  Stories like Jean’s bring this truth into sharp relief: If you aren’t actively preparing yourself for career reinvention at all times, you are at risk.

Here’s what you can do to stay relevant and hire-able in the age of Reinvention:

  1. Stay tuned into trends. Companies are being forced to continually reinvent their business models to stay viable, and anyone working must do the same.  Notice what is happening in the world around you and position yourself to move in the direction the market is heading.
  2. Continually refresh your skill set. Scan job listings and pay attention to which skills are required.  Make sure you can demonstrate proficiency in the most commonly requested ones as well as any specialized skills that will give you an edge.
  3. Put in the time. Don’t wait till you’re out of work to launch a reinvention plan.  Have an ongoing strategy to develop and position yourself for your next position.
  4. Be prepared for it to take a while. Don’t expect to land a new position within three to six months; today, a year or more is not uncommon.  Know your Plan B—what you’ll do to bring in extra cash—in the event of an extended period of unemployment.

For a step-by-step manual for creating your own reinvention strategy, check out my new book The 10 Laws of Career Reinvention: Essential Survival Skills for Any Economy.